The Days Of My Youth (page 5)
Often on those sunny delightful, come-on-out-and-enjoy days, several of us, after a hurried noon meal, would hike off down the lane, over the fence and into the swampy flat-lands along the river. We would go on and on until we came to Cedar Swamp. Here, we would listen and look and sniff and drink in as much of Nature's bounty as we could -- the singing of the birds, the croaking frogs, and in the Spring, the Marsh Marigolds and the ferns and water cress. This would take most of the afternoon. Then we had to get home for supper.
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We had many places where we could wander. There was that "no name" stream that meandered through our pasture, when it was not too dry to be called a stream. In the early spring, after sugar-making, our own bush made a beautiful place to be among the wild flowers and budding trees. Again in the early summer, the wild raspberries beckoned us to come, pick and taste, if the mosquitoes would let us.
Then there were the times when the whole family would plan a drive-out picnic. A favourite place was Springbank Park. Ma would prepare a picnic basket of buttered bread, pressed chicken, deviled eggs, potato salad, crumb cake and lemonade. We would all pile into the surrey and in about an hour and a half we would be there. My first impression of Springbank Park was the miniature coal-fired steam train and the large flower beds of canna lilies. These are still there. It seems that Springbank received its name from the fact of the many pure water springs along the bank of the Thames. The water largely supplied London with domestic water. A large water reservoir on a hill in the park served as the pressure-head for the water supply to the city. There were several covered shelters where the visitors were able to tie their horses while they picnicked on the tables provided. Well, we did just that on the several occasions we visited Springbank.
I remember on one of these picnic trips to Springbank, no sooner had we arrived and tied up the team than a heavy thunder storm broke loose. It was a heavy one. We were fortunate that we had this shelter to eat under. However, the storm did not last long and when the sun came out to cheer us, we were able to have quite a nice time after all.
In the years to come, when the surrey was replaced by our Ford touring car, we still found this the best of all picnic spots. But there were other places, too, that we could get to more easily now with the faster means of travel. There was the shore of Lake Huron, Ipperwash Beach, Kettle Point, Port Franks, all pleasant retreats for a hot Sunday afternoon.
I do not recall any gifted musicians in our family, but we were all very fond of
"good" music. In the parlour along with several rocking chairs, which were
seldom rocked in except on Sundays, was a parlour organ, or Harmonium. I believe that this
was a part of Ma's inheritance from "down home". I remember seeing Mama sitting
on the organ stool pumping and playing some old familiar hymn, while Pa accompanied her
either on his mouth organ or his Mandolin. (It is said that he got this mandolin for
selling magazine subscriptions.) We children would sit around and listen and admire. For
various reasons, it was decided to trade in this pump-organ for a piano. Then, maybe some
other members of the family would be able to take lessons. It turned out to be a beautiful
piano. Our cousin Velda, who bad taken a number of lessons, offered to teach us kids at
least some of the elements of piano playing. Well, we did learn some. As a result my three
brothers and my sister learned enough music to be able to enjoy themselves. I don't know
why I failed, but I did.
When I was quite young, I overheard my Pa telling someone close to the family, that I was
born with a "caul" or veil. This was supposed to confer some special abilities
or characteristics on me as an individual. I now know that there is no truth to this
"old wives' tale", yet I feel that this idea was impressed on my mind, affecting
my attitude, my behaviour, my ego, as well as my sense of self-worth. I grew up believing
that I was in some ways more special than other folks. The fact is, I do have a strong
creative imagination. This myth of the "caul" was to act as a barrier against
adversity and difficult situations, as well as to set me apart as a "loner".
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